Dear WWWFM,I met a girl recently and we dated for 3 months. Everything was great and we got along super well. Here's the problem. I am 20, she is 19, and she just got out of a 3 year relationship with her boyfriend.
It sounds like you are going through a classic case of rebounditis. I'm sorry to tell you that she is not in any kind of emotional shape to be taking on a new relationship, so soon out of the gate from her last one.
You should take your own advice and move on. Staying in touch with her will probably be hard as you already realize so perhaps a clean break is best. You can always get back in touch after six months or a year and see how things are going for her, that is if you are still available. You could send her an occasional email just to let her know you're thinking about her but leave it at that.
I'm sorry that the timing on this one was bad. Now you know you need to be careful to either avoid the rebound relationship kind of situation in the future or take it very slowly. Find yourself a girl who has no emotional hang-ups and is ready to take a leap with you. You deserve that.
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